Ok; it has been months since I last posted … but I am back …
I am very much upset over the loss of a friend . We were not even close to the same age ; BUT we seemed to really connect .. and it hurts that I don’t have anyone like him anymore .
Funny thing is that he choose to believe the lies, bull**it , etc that someone said …. here is the complete story …
Many years ago , I treated a friend’s son just like my nephew since his father was not in his life ….
I had been a part of their family for many years … and he took a liking to me , so I’d take him out to eat , talk to him about his problems, let him stay over at my home , … I went to all their family functions like holiday dinners , week end dinners …. we exchanged presents for Christmas, Birthdays etc ….. To me that all equaled family ….
I THOUGHT we were all cool etc … he** .. he called me just a year or so ago asking if I was going to move back up North as he did not have too many friends , if any …. and I was seriously considering it …
Then ; several months ago .. out of no where , he tells his mother and his wife that I MOLESTED him when he was younger … What the F**k is this son of a bit** talking about ? NOTHING could be further from the truth , for God’s sakes ….
So word gets out among the entire family that I “Molested” his dirty fat a** and now I am no longer any part of the family …. Doesn’t matter what I say or anything …. since he is BLOOD ; he gets believed over anything I say ….
What hurts most is that now my good buddy , who is related to the liar , won’t have anything to do with me because his mother and step father actually believe the lies and slander that the a** wipe up North claims …..
So; I guess we were not real FAMILY after all …. and my “buddy” and I were not the friends , like I thought that we were …. he should know better ….
What now ? Who knows ? However; my mother raised a survivor and I will be just fine … Maybe one of these days , the damage from the liar will be repaired .. if not ; it is their loss , not mine .